16Personalities Test
I spent ten minutes this morning on the 16Personalities Test, and to quote my wife: Thanks, it delivered real added value.
Some might find it creepy to get a pretty accurate summary of their personality and character traits, but I felt seen. It feels soothing to realize that there is a category I can identify myself with, complete with a list of my strengths to be proud of and weaknesses to work on. I won’t walk around and introduce myself as “Stephan, personality type ENFP-A Campaigner. Pleasure.” But I took plenty of notes that I can see myself get back to.
Which brings me to my next point: The test summary is super-quotable, as it is concise and well-written. I am glad to now be equipped with the words that I so frequently lack when trying to describe myself or my approach to life. Some of the highlights include:
The verbal image of the whirlwind is even in the title of my note Michel Gondry and My Inner Whirlwind and I find it reassuring that my original thoughts about myself are not completely unreasonable. I have also already established that I am a scanner personality, which is a huge source of joy and one of my biggest sources of frustration at the same time… Just like my intense feelings. And “dreamer with a mission?” That’s a strong contender for my new freelance business slogan.
But what I value the most is that the test sparked introspection and reflection. Once my wife and I both had our results ready, our morning coffee chat turned into a deep conversation about our personalities, our relationship, and our thoughts on personal growth. I cherish special moments like this; they create this lingering feeling that something good just happened.
Last but not least, the test revealed a fellow ENFP-A Campaigner type I already knew 10 years ago to be a brother in spirit: Phil Dunphy.